Things You Need to Know about a Lifestyle Party

SEX IS NOT A TABOO SUBJECT ANYMORE

Most people feel comfortable with discussing their bedroom antics with friends and even discuss the average number of partners people have in their lifetime has increased dramatically in recent years.

Even lifestyle parties, which were once reserved for only the very adventurous, are more popular than ever. However, there is still an element of mystery that shrouds a lifestyle “swinger” party.

  1. No, people don’t throw their keys in a bowl
  2. Safety is a priority and always comes first
    1. No protection usually means No Play
  3. Everyone is “Normal”
    1. People often presume lifestyle people are either ridiculously all good looking (like Eyes Wide Shut), ridiculously suburban, or raging old hippies.  In actuality normal people yes some may be drop dead gorgeous, or a suburban mom and dad but most are your average person you work along side with everyday.
    2. Simply curious and open-minded, non-judgemental couples and singles exploring a different side of themselves
  4. There is a strong code of conduct
    1. No ALWAYS MEANS NO
    2. Courtesy, respect and an understanding of when someone is not interested in you are an essential part of all parties and events
  5. Couples come as a couple and leave as a couple
    1. Single Men are extremely limited and are screened for entry
    2. Single Women often called “Unicorns” are also allowed  but still screened
  6. It is like attending a “Social”
    1. People dont strip naked as soon as they arrive
    2. People are encouraged to relax and enjoy the party atmosphere
      1. Ie: Shooting Pool
    3. Play is often limited to certain areas
  7. Everyone is welcome
    1. The wonder and beauty of these parties and events is that there is no judgement. People are stripped metaphorically speaking.
    2. So dont be surprised you may be speaking with a janitor one minute, a waitress another, then perhaps a physician or huge realty tycoon.

  1. Going just to watch is usually allowed ( please check with the host due to certain themes)
    1. There are different “types” of attendees
    2. Watching is considered very normal for “newbies”
  2. It is just a sexy fun time
    1. A place filled with people looking to explore after a hard week of work
  3. It is far less intimidating than you would think
    1. Because at the end of the day, it is just a bit of fun, isn’t it?
    2. REMEMBER It was EVERYONE’S FIRST TIME ONCE!!!